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About This Quiz
Whether it's a green light, a stop sign, or a left turn, certain signs are familiar to all road users. What's doubly handy about them is that sometimes, they can help signal your relationship's direction too!
How simpatico are you two?
Not very
Entirely
We are fairly simpatico because I ensure we are
Very, most of the time
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Do you treat your partner like royalty?
LOL no
Naturally
Yes, but they don't always do it back
I try to
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How passionate are you?
A lot
Not very, but we are comfortable and compatible
Not very
We have our moments
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Do you feel like changes are afoot?
I feel like an explosion is coming
No, we're just chugging along nicely
No, but I wish they would
Yes, but we will stick it out
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Are you cool with them changing in future?
Yes, because I will not be there
Yes, as long as it is not too much - my boo is perfect as they are
I hope they do
I am trying to be
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Do you find yourself just very comfortable together?
Nope
Yes
No, but I never say anything aloud
Mostly
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Is your relationship your safe place?
LOL no
Oh, yes, it's wonderful
I work hard but it doesn't always work
Yes, it's the world that sucks sometimes
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Do you know deep down that this relationship comes with an expiration date?
We both knew it going in
No, because it does not
I am starting to, yes
I really hope it doesn't
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Can you embrace your differences?
No, they're going to blow this up one day
Yes
I'm trying
That's the goal for us both
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Do you put up with a lot of crap from your partner?
No, I'm done with their crap
No, there is no crap
All the time
Sometimes, but we work through it and grow stronger
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Do you spend a lot of time apart?
Yes, mercifully
No, but that's fine for us
We probably ought to
Only when we have to
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Do you call your partner out when they screw up?
No, there's no point
I know I should, but I do not always
No, that's scary
Yes, that way you can learn
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Does your partner respect you?
I don't know actually
Yes, of course
I fear not
Yes, more now than ever
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Do you share core values?
Nope
Absolutely
I used to think so, but now I see maybe not
Yes, though we have shaped one another's values too
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Can you see yourselves together in 10 years?
No
Absolutely
Less every day
We profoundly hope so, but we are not naive: we know that the answer to that is in our power to shape
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Can you talk through disagreements, even really big ones, without being unkind or lashing out?
Nope
We sometimes avoid such things, which we know is bad
I can, they can't
Yes, that is our superpower
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When you're stressed, does your partner's presence make it better or worse?
Worse
Better
Usually worse
Nearly always better
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Do you ever find them really annoying?
Ugh, yes
Nope, we are basically one big person now
More intimidating than annoying
Only rarely, but I just say I need alone time when that happens and they leave me alone, then I'm happy to see them when they come back
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Is either of you a little immature?
Yes, both
I don't think so
Yes, they are
No, but we are growing, so relatively speaking, we used to be
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Have you passed any big couple milestones like saying "I love you" or buying a home together?
No, thank goodness
All of them - mortgage, kids, etc.
One or two
A few key ones, yes
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Would you trust them with your money?
LOL no
Yes, we have a joint account
Reluctantly yes
Yes, but we have separate accounts
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Do you feel the same way about kids?
I have no idea
Of course - we have two
They want them sooner than me
We agree, fortunately: we will have two or three
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Would you move out of state for them?
No
If it was best for us both
Already did
I would seriously consider it
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Have they ever really shown up when you were in a pickle?
No, they flaked on me
Many times
No, and it hurt really bad
On a few major occasions, yes
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Do you like their family?
I never met them
I love them
No, they are awful
We're not besties, but we respect each other
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Are you proud to be seen with them?
No, I never tell anyone we're together
Of course, they are my best boo!
No, I know my friends hate my partner
Yes, except when they wear THAT shirt I hate
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