The Love Compatibility Quiz
By: Diana Spasic
Estimated Completion Time 6 min
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About This Quiz
Is having a spark and sharing wild chemistry enough to make a relationship last? While fairy tales might want us to believe so, the truth is it takes a lot more than that. Most of all, longevity takes compatibility. True love needs more than just sparks, no matter how hot and heavy those sparks are. If you're wondering if you're compatible with your partner, you've come to the right place.Â
START QUIZ
If someone asked you how compatible you are with your partner, what would you answer?
We're on the same page about the things we hold important.
We don't have that much in common, but it's working out just fine.
We're pretty compatible, but nobody's perfect. Every relationship needs work and compromises.
We're not compatible at all; we fight about everything.
Does your partner ever hang up the phone and not call you back after an argument?
No, I'm the one who does that.
Yes, they do this sometimes, and it destroys me.
They've done it once or twice, but they apologized for it.
Can you see yourself with this person in three years or more?
Do you and your partner often argue about small things?
No, we rarely ever argue about big things, let alone small ones.
It happens, but it's not like we'd kill each other over it.
In case your partner didn't like a certain band you happen to adore, would they still go to that band's concert with you?
Yes, this has already happened.
Yes, I think they would to make me happy.
If you could spend a month alone together on a desert island with your partner, what would you do?
Freak out. We'd probably kill each other.
We'd probably never want to get back home.
We'd go on adventures together.
Try to finally get to an understanding about some issues we've been having
How do you deal when something really bothers you in this relationship?
I talk to my partner about it and try to do it calmly.
We have a heated discussion that turns into an argument.
I avoid thinking about it.
I talk about it with my best friend.
Do you share the same view on finances and spending money in general?
Yes, we are more or less the same person when it comes to money.
Not always, and not about everything
When it comes to having children, do both of you know where the other one stands, and do you agree with each other's opinions?
Yes, we both want the same.
One of us is unsure if having children is necessary, but that might change.
I'm not sure; we haven't talk about children yet.
No, we absolutely do not agree.
Would you say your partner is generally thoughtful when it comes to you and your feelings?
Sometimes they are, but that's on very rare occasions.
How do you feel when your partner needs to spend some time away from you, like for a business trip or a holiday with friends?
I miss them, but I know they have other important things in their life, too.
I get secretly jealous of all the people they spend time with.
I'm OK; those things are normal. We're not sewn to each other.
Do you often talk about your future together?
Not as often as I'd like to
Not often, just sometimes
When it comes to religion, how do your views match with those of your partner?
We're on the same page of the same book.
We avoid talking about religion because we know it will cause an argument.
Our ideas are similar, and though they might not be exactly the same, we're working on our differences.
This is one of the things we can never agree on.
How do you most often spend your free time as a couple?
We don't spend much of our spare time together. We argue about it a lot.
We each have our separate hobbies we spend our free time on, and we're cool with that.
We think of something new we can do together each time.
When it comes to going out and socializing, does your attitude match your partner's?
No, one of us loves socializing and the other hates it.
We feel the same most of the time.
We argue about this constantly.
We don't feel the same, but we make compromises.
During holiday season, how easily do the two of you decide whose family you're visiting?
Each of us visits their own family.
We often disagree on this, and it leads to massive arguments.
We spend our holidays away from our families so no one gets hurt.
We take it in turns year after year.
Are there things about your relationship you'd like to change that you haven't yet discussed with your partner?
Yes, there are many things.
No, I tell them everything.
Maybe, but I don't see a point in telling them because nothing would change.
I could think of several things.
How soon would you like to get married to this person?
I'm not sure I'd like to get married to them at all.
Maybe in a couple of years
Do you sometimes get the feeling the two of you are so similar, it's surreal?
Similar? The two of us? Nice joke
Do you believe in real love, and if you do, do you think this is it?
I believe in real love, but I don't think this is it.
I'm not sure real love exists.
I'm not sure about anything anymore.
Have you ever been troubled about how slow or how fast your relationship is going?
No, everything's as it should be.
How do you react to your partner's criticism?
They hardly ever criticize me, and I deal with it just fine.
We get into an argument every time.
I try to understand their point of view.
It saddens me and makes me feel unworthy.
How close are you and your partner when it comes to intimacy (hugging, kissing, cuddling)?
We hug and kiss all the time.
We're very close, but we don't act like love-fools in front of people.
We kiss every now and then.
We're not as close as I'd want to be.
Do your political views match those of your partner?
We have our differences, but nothing drastic.
We don't talk about politics.
Would you say you regularly laugh together as a couple?
Yes, not a day goes by without a laugh.
We don't have the same sense of humor, but somehow we still laugh together a lot.
We share a giggle every now and then.
Where does this relationship stand on your list of priorities?
It's my number-one priority.
It ranks very high up there, but it's not the most important thing in my life.
It's important but not a priority.
According to you, which of the following is the most important aspect of a loving relationship?
If someone asked you to describe your current feelings for your partner, what would you say?
I genuinely care about them, but I'm not sure it's true love.
I'm in love, but it's all still fresh.
What kind of a relationship do you have with your partner's parents?
We don't like each other much.
Are you comfortable being yourself around this person?
No, they make me question everything about myself.
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