Is He Marriage Material?

By: Artimis Charvet
Estimated Completion Time
7 min
Is He Marriage Material?
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About This Quiz

While your boyfriend might be amazing and your chemistry might be off-the-charts, not every man you date has the potential to be the man you marry. Take our quiz to find out if he's marriage material!
You take your boyfriend to your niece’s birthday party. How does he act?
He brought a present and mostly hung out with the dads at the party. But when my niece asked for him to push her on the swing, he totally went with it. It was cute.
He loves my niece! They’re like two buddies! He even bought her that bicycle she wanted. It makes me look forward to how he would be with our children.
He backed out at the last minute and then wasn’t available the entire night. Not sure what came up!
He mostly stuck by my side and played on his phone. Sometimes I think he’s just a little shy and doesn’t want to get involved.

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How do your friends act around your boyfriend?
They get along just fine.
They aren’t the biggest fans, but it’s just because they haven’t spent too much time around him yet.
Unfortunately, they’ve never met.
You can barely get a word in and they almost always take his side when you two are in a fight.

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What’s his job situation look like?
He doesn’t really talk too much about his job.
He’s in a job that he really loves and it pays more than enough to cover the bills.
He’s miserable. He talks about how he isn’t doing well and how he can’t really focus on your relationship until he gets it sorted out.
He’s been working for the same company for a while and he’s not sure if he wants to make a move or stay the course.

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When you’re cuddling with him, how do you feel?
So very, very happy and comfortable.
Like you’re ready to jump his bones.
We don’t really cuddle, we just have sex.
Nervous that it might be the last time.

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Where do you see yourself in two years?
Engaged to my boyfriend and figuring out our next move together.
Happily married to my boyfriend, living in that dream house we talked about all the time.
I’m not sure and I’m even more hesitant to imagine this guy in my life.
I actually hope there is someone better out there for me than my current boyfriend.

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How did you handle your first fight with your significant other?
I went on a long walk to clear my head.
We talked things out.
We yelled and eventually made up.
Other / We haven't had a fight yet.

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Which TV couple best describes you and your significant other?
Eric and Donna from "That '70s Show."
Monica and Chandler from "Friends."
Mitchell and Cameron from "Modern Family."
Seth and Summer from "The O.C."

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Do you kiss on a first date?
Who doesn't?
Depends on how many drinks I've had.
Never!
Only if I really like the person.

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What is his best quality?
He's really kind.
He's smart.
He's pious.
He's wealthy.

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How important is money in a marriage?
Not that much. I want to marry for love.
I believe in love but money is necessary.
I don't plan on marrying because I'm not romantic.
Money is very important.

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When it comes to dating and relationships, which phrase best describes you?
Love 'em and leave 'em!
In it for the long haul.
Live dangerously.
Serial wingman.

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How would you describe yourself in a relationship?
I'm honest and open.
I'm protective.
I'm sweet and nice.
I'm loyal and caring.

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What caused your last break up?
They were too stifling, I didn't have room to breathe.
They cheated on me.
We just didn't work, let's leave it at that.
They didn't get along with my friends.

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Your significant other reveals they have cheated on you. They apologize and promise not to do it again. What do you do?
Take a break and think things over.
Remain calm and work through it.
Kick their ass to the curb, and then maybe seek out some revenge.
Listen to your gut and go from there.

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Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes, yes, a thousand times yes!!
Maybe.
It could happen.
There is no such thing.

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Do your parents approve in your current mate?
They're a tad skeptical.
Absolutely.
They don't like him, but they'll come around.
Not one bit.

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What weakness are you able to handle in a relationship?
Someone who's bossy.
Someone who's wishy-washy.
Someone who's judgmental.
Someone who can hold a grudge.

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How much do you trust your significant other?
A fair amount.
I'd trust them to do anything for me!
I trust them to pick up milk from the store.
We're still getting to know one another.

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What was your biggest fight about?
Every time you start to fight, he hangs up on you or stops responding to your text messages.
You once snooped through his phone and checked his Facebook when you were jealous over his ex-girlfriend.
You argue frequently about his commitment level to your relationship.
He once got really, really drunk and was inappropriate in front of your friends.

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You're at the theater watching a movie and someone accidentally drops a tub of popcorn in his lap. What does he do?
He gives the person a weird look, but shrugs it off.
He shrugs it off.
He says, "Wow free popcorn!"
Yells at the person and keeps grumbling about them throughout the movie.

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What do you think is their biggest fear?
Losing all his friends.
Losing all his hair.
Losing all his savings.
Losing all the 'data' on his 1 TB portable hard drive.

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How many children would you like to have together?
Two.
One.
Three or more.
Don't know.

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You're planning to paint your home. Who will choose the paint colors?
The contractors
My partner
Both of us.
I will.

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Do you share the same political beliefs?
We mostly do, but didn't talk about it too much.
No, but we respect each other's differences.
No, they didn't know what was happening in the world.
Yes, we would come to a consensus on most issues.

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What attracted you to them in the first place?
Their body.
Their sense of humor.
Their kind heart.
You don't know, we just clicked.

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If opposites attract, what traits do you look for in a significant other?
They need to be charming and mysterious.
They need to be witty and clever.
They need to be passionate and independent.
They need to be confident and well-groomed.

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Okay - be honest - how is the sex life?
It's amazing!
It’s okay.
We have great chemistry and he really pays attention to what I need, not just what he needs.
We’re sort of in a rut right now.

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How often do you and your guy talk about the future?
Pretty frequently.
Occasionally.
I make a point not to talk about the future. I’m afraid it’ll scare him away!
Only when it’s in reference to him.

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After a really long day at the office, you come home and you ask your guy to give you a massage. What’s his response?
“I’m sorry you had a bad day. I did too. Can you believe that jerk in my office?”
“Sure baby, I’m sorry you had a rough day, do you want to talk about it?”
“Actually, I had a bad day. Can you rub my shoulders? And make dinner?”
“I’m really busy right now babe, can’t you just use that thing your mom got you for Christmas?”

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What percentage of the time do you feel comfortable and relaxed in your relationship?
Almost 100% of the time. He always stays in contact even if it’s just a short text.
About 80% of the time. He can be a bit forgetful, but I know that he sincerely cares about me and is committed to us.
About 50% of the time. He’s hot and cold, completely distant one minute and then way too much in my face the next. I never know what to expect, it’s always a roller coaster.
Almost never. I’m always nervous our relationship is about to come to a quick end.

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