How Antisocial Are You?

By: Diana Spasic
Estimated Completion Time
6 min
How Antisocial Are You?
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About This Quiz

If you like spending time alone, does that make you antisocial? Maybe, and maybe not. People often mistake being an introvert for being antisocial. Are you introverted, or are you just a little bit shy? Do you despise other people? Sometimes we aren't sure if we're really antisocial or just having a bad week, month or even year.

There are many possibilities – you might be an antisocial introvert, or you might be a social introvert, or an unfriendly extrovert. You might be a part of the group of people called ambiverts who possess the qualities of both extroversion and introversion.  An antisocial personality is not the same as an antisocial personality disorder, which defines people who disregard or violate the rights of other people. When we say antisocial personality, it refers to those who continuously avoid the company of other people.

Do you look forward to social gatherings? Are you happy to attend various events and mingle with a bunch of people now and then? If you've been avoiding socializing for a while, or your whole life, does that undeniably mean that you're antisocial? Can you tell the difference between being shy and having an antisocial personality?
Take this quiz to find out!

You wanted to go to your best friend's birthday party, but you accidentally overslept and missed it. How do you feel?
Relieved
Sad. I really don't want my friend to think I didn't show up deliberately.
Guilty and ready to make up for it
I don't feel anything, it wasn't my fault.

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Have you ever been to the movies alone?
No, and I wouldn't try it.
Sure and I love it.
Yes, and I didn't like it.
No, but I'd try it.

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How likely are you to ignore your phone when it rings?
Only when someone boring is calling
Very likely, I do it all the time.
Not likely, I always answer my phone.
I sometimes ignore it, but not all the time.

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Is it difficult for you to comply with everyday social rules?
Not really
Yes, very difficult
Sometimes
I'm not sure.

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A friend calls you and tells you to get ready, they're coming to pick you up and take you somewhere fun. What do you say?
I'm too busy, I can't go.
I pretend to be sick and apologize for not being able to go.
I refuse.
Great! See you soon!

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You're at a party and you realize you don't know anybody but the host, and the host is busy. What do you do?
I apologize to the host and make up a reason to leave.
I start a conversation with someone.
I stay low and hope no one notices me so I can sneak out soon.
I wouldn't even go to that party.

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Have you ever lied or made up a reason for not showing up at a party?
Yes, many times
Maybe once or twice
No, I wouldn't do that.
No, because when I don't feel like going somewhere I simply don't go.

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How often do you go out with friends?
Almost never
Several times a month
Every few days
Rarely

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Do you often feel insecure when you're in a large group of people?
No
Yes
Depends on the group
Not insecure, just uncomfortable

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Are you afraid of being rejected by people, including friends and love interests?
Yes, all the time.
Sometimes
No, I'm the one who rejects them.
No

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Do you prefer working alone or are you a team player?
I'm a team player.
I prefer doing things alone.
It depends on the team I guess.
I can work with a few colleagues, but not with a large group.

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How do you usually greet your friends?
With a big hug and a kiss
Just a hug
A handshake is enough
I just say, "Hi."

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Would you say that you are good at flirting?
No, I'm terrible at it.
I'm pretty good.
I'm not sure.
I'm OK I guess.

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Do you usually trust people?
No
Depends on the person
Yes
No, but I give most people a chance to earn it.

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A cute, single neighbor has just moved in and they are exactly your type. What do you do?
I go over to introduce myself and welcome them to the neighborhood.
I silently hope they will notice me.
I smile whenever we meet.
I try not to bump into them so I don't get my hopes too high. They would probably hurt me anyway.

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How often do you feel betrayed by other people?
Unfortunately, very often
Rarely
Sometimes
So often that I hardly trust anyone anymore

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What's your idea of a perfect party you'd gladly attend?
Lots of people, great music, positive vibes
A small gathering for close friends
My perfect party is a party of one.
Snacks, drinks, and Netflix at my best friend's house

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If you had a job in a store, which task would you enjoy the most?
Helping customers
Anything in the back room
Working with the register
Stocking shelves and tidying things up

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You are about to go out and pick up your mail, but you see a couple of neighbors chatting right beside the mailbox. What do you do?
I wait until they're gone so I can go and pick my mail.
I go out and take my mail, ignoring the neighbors.
I go out, pick my mail and say hi, but don't stick around for a chat.
I go out to take my mail and maybe chat a little with the neighbors.

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Which person in your life do you talk to most?
My parents
Does online chatting count as talking?
My BFF
Myself

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When was the last time you got into a real physical fight with someone?
When I was a kid
Just recently
It's been a few years.
I can't remember.

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You're out running errands and you see someone you know, but you don't feel like talking to them. What do you do?
I pretend I haven't seen them.
I say hi and continue with my errands.
I stop for a quick chat anyway.
I ignore them without a care if they've seen me or not.

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If you were a celebrity, how would you act when going out in public?
I'd wear a hat and big sunglasses to avoid people and the paparazzi.
I'd use private entrances and exits whenever I go somewhere.
I'd sign autographs and take photos with my fans.
I'd probably often have an entourage.

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What would be your ideal pet?
A cat
A dog
Fish
A rock

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What do you think about people who call you instead of answering your text with a text?
I hate those people.
They probably just think calling is quicker and easier.
They're intrusive and rude.
They're very outgoing.

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When you're at the store, and the seller asks you if you need any help, how does it make you feel?
Violated
Upset
I don't feel anything, it's their job to ask me that.
Nervous and insecure

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How do you feel about people who brag all the time?
I pity them.
I think they're obnoxious.
They irritate me a LOT.
I don't pay attention to them.

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Have you mastered the art of small talk?
No, and i don't intend to.
I can do small talk but only when I'm in a mood for it.
I'm great at small talk.
I suck at it, but I'm trying to get better.

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When someone is constantly peeking at your phone or PC screen, how does it make you feel?
Almost bullied
Nervous and irritated
It's rude, but I don't feel especially affected by it.
Outraged

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You suspect your classmates or coworkers are gossiping about you. How do you react?
I am offended and I'm never talking to them again.
I don't care, I never liked any of them anyway.
I try to find out what they're talking without asking them directly.
I ignore it. Gossip comes and goes.

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