Does Your Partner Find You Attractive?

By: Ian Fortey
Estimated Completion Time
5 min
Does Your Partner Find You Attractive?
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About This Quiz

It's hard to have any kind of meaningful relationship without attraction. Obviously just being physically into someone shouldn't be everything, but it has to be something. After all, why would you want to be with someone if there wasn't something about them that you were into? The simplest way that attraction works is just thinking someone else is hot and being into that basic, physical part of them. Then you get to know someone and that can deepen. You can be attracted to their mind, to who they are and how they make you feel. That's a much stronger kind of attraction and it's definitely the one most of us want. But the thing about attraction is it can come and go. Someone seems awesome at first and then, after a while, maybe they display some unattractive qualities. 

Now the crazy thing to think here is what if that's happened to you? What if your partner isn't as attracted to you as they used to be? How do you really know? Well, if they're not being open about it it's not the easiest thing to figure out, but we can try to help. Answer a few questions and we'll help you figure out if your partner finds you attractive or not.

It's date night! If you leave the whole thing up to your partner, where do you think the two of you will go?
Out to the club.
Go somewhere to talk and have a drink maybe.
Probably order a movie and stay in.
Unless it was a surprise, they'd ask me what I want to do, too.

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Does your partner have one word they use most often to compliment you?
Cute
Perfect
Not really, no
Beautiful

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When you first met, was it a love at first sight sort of thing?
They seemed pretty into me.
No, but we got along really well.
Not really.
Oh yeah.

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Not all celebrity couples are train wrecks! What celeb couple is just like you and your partner?
Beyonce and Jay-Z
Will Smith and Jada Pinkett
Ariane Grande and Pete Davidson. Yeah, I know, they broke up.
Chrissy Teigen and John Legend

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Say you and your partner are playing a board game. Do they ever let you win or do they fight to the finish every time?
They can be a little competitive.
No one "lets" me win. We just have fun and whoever wins, wins.
They're pretty cutthroat.
They let me win some games. Of course, I let them win some, too.

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If we went through your partner's phone, how many pics of you would we find?
Tons
There's definitely some in there.
I'm not sure.
There are a lot of both of us together.

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Do you and your partner have the same friends or different friends?
I guess they have a bunch of their own friends.
We share a lot of friends.
We both have our own friends, mostly.
It's a good mix, but we like each others' friends.

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Say your partner was a Taco Bell menu item. What would they be?
Naked Chicken Chalupa.
Crunchwrap Supreme.
Cheesy Potato Burrito.
Fiery Doritos Locos Taco.

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Has your partner ever bought you any clothing as a gift?
Some cute stuff, yeah.
Some things I showed an interest in.
Not really.
Yes

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How much time do you spend texting with each other?
A lot.
We spend more time talking in person.
Not a ton.
A normal amount, I guess.

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Pick a pet name!
Bae
Boo
Hey you
Pookie

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Does your partner ever point out a specific feature about you that they love?
Oh yeah, they have a couple of favorites.
Something about my personality usually.
Nothing specific really.
All kinds of things.

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What happens if you're out together and your partner catches someone else checking you out?
They could get a little jealous.
We'd probably joke about it.
Nothing, really.
I think they kind of like knowing people check me out.

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Straight up, is your partner the jealous type?
Yeah, it's an issue.
No, we trust each other.
Used to be.
Maybe a little, but we can talk about anything, so...

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On a hot summer day is your partner the kind of person who would suggest heading to the beach?
Definitely!
I mean... maybe?
We're not really beach people
Yeah, if we have free time.

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Do you ever catch your partner checking out other people when you're out somewhere together?
Not really
Once in a while. Nothing gross, though.
Constantly
Nope!

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If your phone died and you needed to use your partner's would they give it to you without hesitation?
I hope so!
I've never asked but probably?
I've never actually used their phone.
Of course!

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This is the suckiest feeling in the world but do you ever feel like your partner is embarrassed to be seen with you?
Not even close.
I get an awkward feeling maybe, but not embarrassment.
Yes and I hate it.
I've never felt that way.

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How long did it take your partner to introduce you to their family?
I met them pretty early on.
We'd known each other for a while, I guess.
Still haven't met them.
Not very long.

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Before you two hooked up, were your looks something people complimented often?
People still do.
I mean...sometimes.
Not really.
Yeah, I suppose so.

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Are you guys down with PDA?
Oh yeah!
Neither of us likes doing that in public.
I would be, but they're not.
Sometimes! Nothing weird, though.

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Do you guys ever cook food together?
That's not really our thing.
Sometimes, yes.
We get kind of frustrated working together.
We love cooking together!

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Say its a Saturday night and you two are watching some Netflix. When does the chill come in?
Yeah, the chilling comes early.
We might get a little intimate maybe. Mind your business.
All Netfix, no chill.
We might get a little frisky after the movie.

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If your partner was a pizza topping, what would they be?
Pepperoni
Cheese
Pineapple
All the veggies

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You may not think of this often but why not do it now? Do you kiss them more than they kiss you?
They're all over me.
I guess maybe I make the first movie more often.
They never make the first move.
It seems pretty even, I guess.

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Everyone likes presents! Does your partner ever surprise you with gifts for no reason?
Usually something cute.
They have before.
No
Yes!

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Would you consider your partner your best friend?
Best friend? Maybe not.
Actually, yes.
My friendships are different.
I have a best friend but my partner is a good friend, too.

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If your partner was a small woodland creature, which one would they be?
Chipmunk
Bunny
Weasel
Squirrel

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So how attracted to your partner are you? Be as honest as you like.
They're smoking hot.
We have a really deep connection, I think.
I think they're pretty attractive.
I'm really attracted to them.

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We promise this is really important, Harry Potter, GOT or LOTR?
Literally didn't know what those last two are
I'm a massive Potterhead
Daenerys is my kween
And my axe!

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